S&M, Life, and Dating

Things We Say:

So there was this one time at the Livorno sirport where we ran through security--My coworker Jon
No no no, let me tell you guys what really happened.--Different coworker Nathan
I LOVE it when people say things like that.  It is not only funny, but allows you to see how different perceptions can be!
 
Never did catch what you do; and usually I'm pretty good at catching things from women at bars.--friend Greg's facebook status.

My boss is so deceiving! He can tell you "when the contractor comes in I am going to tell him what he's doing is bullshit and illegal at the same time" but then the contractor walks in and he's like "HEEEY Mr. Contractor! How've you been?!"--Me about my boss
I think this is funny because he's not a little wimpy guy, so when he talks about handing it to the contractors, you expect to see bloodshed, but he is an EXPERT at hiding the fangs and still walking out the meetings with smiles on everyone's faces and hands being shaken.  I don't have the patience or tolerance for this kind of behavior, but one day I hope to. 

You're breaking the rule babe, you can't have more tattoos than me--Boyfriend
You're breaking the rule babe, you can't be homeless AND carless--Me the next day when he was done shipping his car out.
what was said was not funny. The fact that I happened to wait and stew over a comment for a day is what is funny. :)

Blurb My Brain:

So I'm really really really torn.  I have so many options, and I have no idea where I want to go.  My parents say I should wait until May to figure out where they are going before I decide where I want to go.  I am entirely too impatient for that.  I want to plan my life NOW dammit! I want to start the transfer process now so I have nine months for it to get done, and then I can have it ironed out.  Now, I have been thinking about this concept a lot lately. In fact, it is on my mind more than anything else in the world. The puzzlement is that one day I hope to be a military spouse (pending a willing man, lol) and so you would think that I should adjust to being in the air about where we are going.  Honestly, if I were married, I would worry less, because at least then I know that I will be paid to move around and stuff.  But not knowing where I am going to be in nine months, makes me anxious, since I can't begin to plan my move, my job, my living, everything.
The choices are:

• Baltimore
• Pros
• Close to UMUC, and can possibly take upperlevel classes face to face (which is amazing!)
• good district for my job.
• boss has a ton of contacts to help get me a job there.
• Cons
• Baltimore has a high cost of living
• Terribly unsafe city apparently
• No family in sight. lol
• Philadelphia
• Pros
• Fantastic district for work
• Boss is godlike there
• Boss has even more contacts there
• Close to NYC, but not close enough to hurt me like Newark hahah
• Boyfriend has relatives nearby to help me
• Cons
• don't know anyone there
• not too close to UMUC
• Kansas City
• Pros
• MUSIC. lol just kidding
• Commuting distance to the school that I already got accepted into. 
• driving distance to many friend's houses
• Cons
• DANGEROUS city
• Saint Louis
• Pros
• Know entirely too many people
• Know the area already
• Possibility for parents to live there
• Cons
• know too many people. 
• no desire to live there

So yeah, I'm leaning towards Philly, but gahhhhh I don't know.....

Featured Randoms:
So lately, I have been BELTING out a song by P!nk. It is called Ave Mary A, a different take on the prayer Ave Maria. It not only gives me goosebumps, but I bawl every time I sing "Ave Mary A" and the rest of the chorus.  Something about it speaks to me.  I'm not a hardcore religious freak but yes, I do almost feel as if I'm singing to Mary herself.  Kick ass song.

On the flip side, Rhianna did a song called S&M and I think the video is just interesting.  What are the singers of today thinking? Oi.